Sunday, August 21, 2011

people pleasin' gal

self help books at the ready please people... i am a people pleaser and i'm sick of it! lol

i need some pseudo-shrink advice on whether once a people pleaser always a people pleaser?!

can i break from this self perpetuating prison of niceness?! haha i mean, i don't wanna be a complete biatch, a meanie, the selfish girl... but i need some kind of happy medium where i do what's best for me occasionally... without worrying about how it will impact on those around me!

answers on a postcard please!


Anonymous said...

Well, you wanna do something for yourself without worrying what others would think? I say be Wolverine for a while. I mean, the guy even after he is dead when he reaches the place in between life and heaven, doesn't peacefully go. He picks a fight with all those whom he have sent to kingdom come!

There are just two options for him. Lashing out or withdrawal. And I think it is time for you to lash out for a while dropping the humble attitude!

All the best.

jodester said...

thanks hari! i don't know that i lashed out but i definitely changed a few things... and on we go :)