i need some pseudo-shrink advice on whether once a people pleaser always a people pleaser?!
can i break from this self perpetuating prison of niceness?! haha i mean, i don't wanna be a complete biatch, a meanie, the selfish girl... but i need some kind of happy medium where i do what's best for me occasionally... without worrying about how it will impact on those around me!
answers on a postcard please!